Having an autistic sibling can be a unique experience, and children may have questions or mixed emotions about it. Helping them understand autism in a way that makes sense to them can strengthen their relationship and create a more supportive family environment.
Use Simple and Age-Appropriate Explanations
When talking to younger children, keep explanations clear and easy to grasp. You might say, “Your brother’s brain works differently, so he experiences the world in his own way.” Older siblings may be ready for a deeper discussion about communication differences, sensory sensitivities, and unique strengths.
Focus on Strengths and Differences
Rather than highlighting challenges, help siblings see their autistic brother or sister’s strengths. For instance, “Your sister may not like loud noises, but she’s really great at remembering details.” This helps shift the perspective from seeing autism as a difficulty to understanding it as a different way of thinking.
Encourage Patience and Empathy
Siblings might sometimes feel confused or frustrated when their autistic brother or sister struggles with communication or routines. Teaching them to be patient and understanding can help. You can also role-play different situations, such as respecting a sibling’s need for personal space or giving them extra time to respond.
Create an Open Space for Questions
Let siblings know they can ask questions and express their feelings—whether they feel proud, curious, or even frustrated. Ensure that all emotions are valid, and encourage ongoing conversations so they feel heard and supported.
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